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Pleasuring yourself is not always as simple as it sounds Learn these ways to make your solo experience unforgettable. I remember the first time I experienced the fun of masturbating. It was in the shower and the feeling of the warm water running all my body made me feel good. When I focused on that special spot, I experienced something that I found it difficult to describe. The best word I can use to describe it is awkward. I knew that what I did was fun, but I also thought it was naughty. It took me years to learn that masturbating is something almost everyone does.
Everyone wants that! Sit in a chair and have your partner put two fingers on either side of your clitoris, scissoring their fingers together while gently licking or sucking the tip of your clit. Not only does this allow for deeper penetration, but you can have them knead or spank your butt for improved orgasm. Bouncing off your partner can create a feeling that some women find to be super intense in a good way, obvs and leaves the external part of your clit exposed and ready to be stroked with a finger or toy, adds Steinberg. Have your partner thrust into you while they kneel and grab your hips so your thighs rest on their lap. Meanwhile, you go to town on your clit with your favorite vibe, for a nearly foolproof way to ensure you get yours too or three times or four.
You're stressed out ugh, work! What's a girl to do? Masturbate, of course! For starters, it doesn't just feel good—solo play is legit good for you. In other words, you should probably consider adding it to your self-care Sunday routine, stat.