Your first time having lesbian sex , or girl-on-girl slash vulva-on-vulva sex, can be pretty nerve racking and daunting. No matter how confident you are, or how much lesbian porn you've watched which FYI, is not realistic AT ALL all vaginas are different and like to stimulated in different ways. So if you're in need of some tips on how to have sex with a girl or vulva-having person, here's what you need to know - from how to beat the nerves, to which lesbian sex positions to try. I know you're thinking,"How on earth will I know what to do? If you've had male or penis-having sexual partners before, that may help inform a fair bit of what you do, but it still might feel strange to be giving what you have previously received. The good news is that although tips and tricks are handy, sex is still largely intuitive whatever genders or bodies it's between. You might find you surprise yourself Your virgin voyage to the Sapphic Isles needn't come without a personalised map — or, you know, a super-hot Sat Nav with the voice of Marilyn Monroe, if you're lucky. You don't have to arrange a pre-coital business meeting with pointing sticks and blow-up dolls, but once you've brushed up on some basic lesbian sex tips , simply talking dirty prior to the act is a great way to establish what you both do, and don't want to try with each other.
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Hello ladies. Which is acceptable only you approach this sacred sex with the respect it deserves, and full honesty to all parties involved, including yourself and ideally your broader circles. Lesbians and bisexual women are not playthings, or fetishes, nor are we fun experiments to try on and then ditch when a more socially-acceptable penis-sporting human comes along. Lesbians and bi girls are people with feelings and learned wariness around straight chicks with questionable intentions. Full stop. I have no hidden thoughts that you are actually gay and just on your path to Oz; some of you legit just want to see what this is like, understand your bodies and desires better, and explore your unexamined attractions. Or bisexuality, or fluid sexuality, or in-between sexuality or non-binary attraction or whatever your personal preferences are.
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Having sex for the first time can be a little nerve-racking, no matter who you are or who you want to have sex with. For example, they could identify as bisexual , pansexual, queer, or even heterosexual. It also includes other people who have vaginas, people with penises, and people with intersex genitalia.
Skip navigation! Story from TV Shows. While Girls has featured groundbreaking sex, thus far that sex has been pretty heteronormative.